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🌤 Think Solutions, Not Setbacks

  • Writer: Marchelle Wilson
    Marchelle Wilson
  • Nov 3
  • 3 min read

This week on runONthoughts, we’re exploring how to shift from seeing obstacles as roadblocks to viewing them as opportunities. Life will always test your patience and peace, but when you train your mind to look for solutions instead of setbacks, you create space for growth, clarity, and even miracles.


Eye-level view of a cozy kitchen with a table set for a family meal
Think Solutions Not Setbacks

1. Acknowledge the Real — Don’t Dwell in It

It’s okay to admit things are hard. Life isn’t always pretty, and pretending it is doesn’t make it easier. But acknowledging the challenge doesn’t mean you have to stay in it. Pause, take a deep breath, and ask, “What can I actually control right now?” Shifting from frustration to action is how you reclaim your power. You don’t have to ignore reality — just refuse to make it your permanent address. Remember we must continue to think solutions and not focus on setbacks.


2. Ask Better Questions

Your thoughts follow your questions. When you ask “Why me?” you stay stuck in the story. But when you ask “What can I do with this?” or “What lesson is hidden here?” you invite perspective and creativity into the conversation. Good questions open the door to good answers. They remind you that even in the middle of chaos, there’s wisdom waiting to be found — if you’re curious enough to look for it. Again, Think Solutions not setbacks.


3. Surround Yourself with Possibility Thinkers

Energy is contagious. The company you keep can either drain your drive or spark your imagination. Spend time with people who push forward, who see challenges as chances to grow, and who remind you that stuck isn’t forever. Possibility thinkers don’t deny the hard stuff — they just refuse to let it define them. That kind of energy can shift an entire day, and sometimes, an entire life.



🌱 Final Thought

You can’t control every situation, but you can control how you respond. Every time you choose perspective over pessimism, you make room for something better — growth, wisdom, and peace.

So today, think solutions, not setbacks. Because your mindset is the first miracle.



Aldi has a Thanksgiving meal plan for $40.                        It's Real. I went there myself.
Aldi has a Thanksgiving meal plan for $40. It's Real. I went there myself.

$40 Aldi Thanksgiving Meal Guide


Now that you have strategies to navigate tough times, let's focus on making Thanksgiving special without stretching your budget. Aldi is a great choice for budget-friendly groceries. Here’s how to prepare a wonderful Thanksgiving feast for just $40:


Main Dish: Turkey

  • Whole Turkey (10-12 lbs.): Approximately $0.99 per pound. Watch for sales in the weeks leading to Thanksgiving to maximize savings.


Side Dishes

  • Stuffing Mix: $1.29

  • Mashed Potatoes: $2.49 for a bag of potatoes or $1.99 for instant mix.

  • Green Beans: $1.49 for a frozen bag.

  • Cranberry Sauce: $0.89

  • Dinner Rolls: $1.99 for a pack.


Dessert

  • Pumpkin Pie: $3.99 or you can make your own using canned pumpkin for about $1.50.


Beverages

  • Apple Cider: $2.49 for a gallon.


Total Estimated Cost: $39.99


This budget-friendly meal allows you to enjoy a traditional Thanksgiving feast while keeping expenses in check, making it possible to share the day with your loved ones joyfully.


Also feel free to interchange things to better serve your family. Doing your best with what you got is ENOUGH.


Embracing the Season with Meaning


Coping during tough economic times doesn't mean letting go of joy or connection. By redefining abundance, setting realistic expectations, and practicing gratitude, you can face these challenges with confidence.


As the holiday season approaches, remember that celebrating special occasions like Thanksgiving doesn’t have to be expensive. With a little creativity and planning, you can create lasting memories without overspending. You’re doing your best, and that’s what truly counts. Embrace this opportunity to foster connection, love, and togetherness with the people who matter most to you. Again, remember we must think solutions, not setbacks.


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Hey thought thinkers, I know many are looking for a miracle, but what if I let you know, that YOU ARE THE MIRACLE. You already have enough inside of you to Make It Do What It Do.


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